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2010-07-16T12:39:00.004-06:00

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If it were true....you'd feel great!

2010-05-22T14:11:00.017-06:00

I had an experience the other day when someone very near & dear to my heart made the comment, "I am not good enough". Sadly far, FAR too many feel & even believe this lie. During a heart-to-heart with her, I made a comment along these lines, "Think about something for a minute....If that statement was true, you would feel completely at peace inside, maybe even joyful! The very fact that you do not & in fact feel pretty crumby, is telling you something."

This experience reminded me of an experience years ago with my own daughter. One day my daughter ran into my room in tears. After holding her for a minute, she was able to tell me that one of of her brothers had made a reactionary comment, "You are a bad girl". Even her telling me this made her tear up all over again. (And me to!)

I held her sweet little face in my hands & first I affirmed that she was absolutely a good girl. I told her in terms a young child would understand, that sometimes people say things they don't mean. Sometimes they don't even realize how they made us feel as they are reacting to things in their own experience. There are lots of reasons someone may say something hurtful. I told her that I did not know why her brothers had said that & it was not okay. I then told her there was one thing that I wanted her to understand here. If it were true, you would feel good right now. I asked her, how she felt (although it was very clear). She teared up again & told me she felt bad. I looked her in her eyes & simply said....."Then what he said is not true."

She looked at me for a moment. Then her whole countenance changed. She wiped her tears & simply said "Okay", giving me one of those make-your-heart-smile grins. I gave her one more hug & she was skipping off to play with her brothers again.

She had clearly not had this understanding of her emotions. How many of us do? But even at her very young age, something clicked within her little being. As she gained a level of understanding about this aspect of her energetic nature, her emotions, she was able to see the reality of a truth & of a lie, & in that, act accordingly. She just innately knew she did not have to hold onto a lie. If it wasn't true, it held no presidence for her.

What about those that have more of a connection to these non-truths that bring so much suffering & struggle to their lives; such as the near & dear I spoke about earlier, clearly connected to the belief "I am not good enough"? How do we become free of this? In exactly the same way.

This is why Energy Therapy, as I practice it, is so beautifully blessing lives. By simply having an accurate understanding of our energetic nature, (this includes the energetic nature of our beliefs & their emotional results) we see our experience for what it is. In doing so, we learn to work or move in harmony with this dynamic aspect of who we are & what we have been given. Resulting in freedom from false beliefs, clearing of limiting patterns & even past trauma. But more, we also learn to how to create more connected & fulfilling relationships, how to have more peace & clarity in our lives & how to live the lives of joy we are so perfectly created to.

So what can we learn here to help us in our current life experiences? This brings to light a very simple, very pure & very innate process we are given to live the gift of our own life, whatever our specific circumstances maybe......

#1- Your emotions & feelings are telling you something. Listen.
#2- These are innate gifts give to know truth for yourself. Acknowledge it.
& #3 - You now have a choice. Choose it.

Your emotions are gifts. As you come to understand this truly beautiful aspect of your energetic nature more fully, you will learn to move in much more harmony with this "music" & have more peace & joy in your life. Its amazing what unfolds as we simply acknowledge the truth of the gifts before us.

"Why did I say that!"

2010-03-12T15:52:00.014-07:00

Have you ever been in a situation with maybe an employer, someone you look up to, or some other individual & you look back later, after the interaction & say, "WHY did I act like that!", "Why did I say that!", "Why didn't I just stop talking!" or something to that effect? Well, I have a little added insight for you.

The other day I had my own experience with this & I was very aware it had been a recurring pattern for me. I had previously taken care of some energetic childhood residue around it & as a natural process of progression, the other night I became consciously aware of something that I needed to acknowledge within myself.

(Just an added note here, having first taken care of the "gunk" that makes it difficult sometimes for us to acknowledge & feel truth about ourselves, makes this much easier by the way! It lays the ground work, so when presented with truth, we can see, feel & embrace it more freely & fully.)

It just so happened, a friend was talking to me about this same thing in regards to a training call with a member of management & how she was so worried about how she sounded & how she behaved. I was able to share my experience with her.

A little background - this gal clearly gives a 110% in all that she does at work! And I have seen first hand that the employer knows & immensely value's this. Here is some of what I shared with her. (I go into a little more added detail here, just to illustrate the actual process I experienced.)

"Just remember that your worth & value as a part of this company is not in question. I think that is SO clear! You do such a beautiful job & work so hard. I know that everyone sees that.

I have realized that for me, when I have worried like this, it comes down to my having an issue presenting about wanting approval. Basically because I don't think I have it, or because I believe it is in question, or needs to be affirmed at some level. (I realize that it does, but not from others!) Then, its like we unconsciously do "over's".

That's why looking back, we go, "What?! Why was I like that!"

We unconsciously over compensate for our own perceived lack or belief in our "disapproval" & actually make it more prominent! (Though most of time it is realistically only ourselves judging our behavior.)

I went on to share with her....

So, the other night when I was having issues with this coming up for me, I did some Energy Work to take care of what I needed to, clearing up some false beliefs presenting - for just that purpose of course.

I was feeling better, but I knew there was something more I was needing to acknowledge here. After taking care of what I was given to take care of, I was very prayerful about being able to see truth here. I knew that Heavenly Father could see much more clearly than I could - especially in my over tired state! Then, I went to bed.

I woke up in the middle of the night with the thought ...."Your worth lies not in what you do or have. Your worth lies in who & what you are."

Absolutely beautiful. And it is true. Cognitively we know that right? But, we also need to feel it.

I realize that we have these experiences so that we can re-affirm these truths within ourselves, & on a "feeling" level. (Acknowledging for yourself, the truth that your are valued, even by this company, because 1st, who you are & 2nd for the work that you do that expresses who you are, brings so much peace....even an inner joy. Even if all we can do is be willing to believe this is true, we will feel the first fruits of a growing inner peace & edification, telling us it is true.)

It's really beautiful how simply being a place of truth within ourselves, also helps things in our "outer" lives to work out really beautiful to."

She wrote me later & shared how this was exactly what she needed to hear. (I always feel so honored to realize that my experiences of growth & progression can benefit another!)

Just remember that who you are is enough. In fact, it is immensely beautiful! And when you acknowledge & feel this within your own being, others around you do as well. The things you do will then even express this beautiful "music".... & do so effortlessly!

A very fulfilling & rewarding way to live your life! Something so many look for & try to make happen. If only they knew it was as natural & innate within them as their own heart beat....
Great news is, they can!

Calyco on the Women's Information Network (WIN)

2010-02-19T16:42:00.003-07:00

I just wanted to share this great resource with you!

Carolyn Cooper, the CEO & founder of Calyco Healing Inc., is truly a girlfriend after my own heart! She has a passion for helping individuals step into their true, authentic rhythm
because she knows that when you change one individuals life, you change generations.

These ladies at the WIN share some basic info about Calyco Healing...

With intuition, skill, and amazing simplicity.... aligns all of the energy systems to restore balance and harmony to a body.... locate and repair flaws in the DNA, some of which have been in the lineage for many generations. This powerful way of healing changes energy patterns as well as subconscious beliefs and clients report profound and life-changing results, usually in only one session. (The Calyco Healing)...method is streamlined and efficient, yet very thorough.

Carolyn host's a radio show on the Women's Information Network (http://thewinonline.com).
In these radio shows Carolyn offers, you can:

Discover how to deal with the energy of finances, relationships, health & many other issues that affect you on a daily basis.
Acquire the tips & insight that will help change your energy patterns & subconscious beliefs.
Learn how to clear your mind, calm your body & claim your spirit.

The most current show is "Laughter Therapy". Check it out! http://thewinonline.com/shows/living-flow-show

Creating a Season of Wellness

2009-11-11T17:02:00.003-07:00

I wanted to share a great post I read/listened to on Carol Tuttles blog: http://thecarolblog.com

It is all about creating a season of wellness, rather than the alternative!

Watch this short video from Carol Tuttle & learn how to create a Season of Wellness that can last all year long.

While you are there, read her other posts on health & wellness. Profoundly beneficial & powerfully supportive resources!

"20 Ways to Find, Sustain & Share Happiness..."

2009-10-29T10:45:00.003-06:00

I want to share a post from Carol Tuttle at her blog, thecarolblog.com, that is a perfect compliment to my last two posts. Enjoy!.......

"20 Ways to Find, Sustain & Share Happiness

Happiness is a choice. The more happiness you choose, the more life presents you with experiences to feel happy about. If you are feeling blue or even downright depressed, you must make the decision to “get happy.”

The following tips can help you; however, if you are seriously depressed, get some professional help. There are many new cutting-edge energy therapies that clear away negative emotions and negative thinking.

Find a professional who is more interested in giving you tools and guidance in generating more happiness than in trying to figure out why you feel the way you do. It is not necessary to find out why we feel sad or depressed to clear these feelings.

The bottom line is, if we give a lot of attention to what we don‘t want, we create more of it........

1. Choose to be happy rather than right.

2. Repeat aloud: “It doesn‘t matter.”

3. Pay it forward. For every kind deed offered to you, do a kind deed for someone else.

4. Write thank-you notes frequently. The energy of gratitude feeds happiness.

5. Smile—even if you don‘t feel like it. You eventually will!

6. “Tap-out” your sad feelings. Using your fingertips, tap all over the top of your head while repeating: “I am free of this sadness. I am now feeling happy.” Tapping on the nerve endings on the top of your head will start to lift this heavy, sad energy.

7. When you think a complimentary thought about someone—tell them.

8. Refrain from making judgments—think something positive instead.

9. Whistle.

10. Skip around your house.

11. Turn on your favorite upbeat song and sing along.

12. Ask your angels to flow to you the energy of happiness.

13. Patch your right eye if you are thinking negative thoughts. When you put an eye patch on your right eye, you quiet the left brain and its negative chatter.

14. Hug someone—tightly.

15. Ask your children to tuck you in bed and read you a story for a change.

16. Stay in the present. Let the future be just that: the future.

17. Hold a newborn baby and welcome them into the world.

18. Give some service to someone who is more needy than you.

19. Exercise regularly.

20. Pray and meditate.

And, just because I like to give a little extra, because it makes me happy,

21. Love yourself and make the choice to “BE HAPPY.”

You are a powerful magnet either attracting to you what you don‘t want or what you do want!...."

Thank you Carol for getting right to the point as you do so beautifully!

Depression...there is hope

2009-10-26T14:59:00.004-06:00

Depression is one of those issues that almost seems epidemic. So many seem to be struggling with this. I know from personal experience how life can be such a struggle when you are having this experience. But, I also know, by that same token, that there is hope.

The reasons that one may not only feel depressed, but quite literal BE depressed, are as varied as are the individuals that experience depression. But, regardless, depression is far more than just feeling down. Study after to study has been conducted to help us understand & treat depression. We know that for each person, it is a literal physiological experience, effecting our body chemistry, just as much as it effects us psychologically.

So, what do we do? What do we have available to us?

All the years of research have revealed studies that there is much that we can do. Research & hands on experience has show how changing diet, social ties & interaction, possibly medication & other more holistic or natural resources can profoundly benefit lives.

As I am not a physician nor a licensed psychologist, I always recommend that you consult with a competent care provider if you are experiencing depression. As I am an individual who has struggled with depression, I know from my own personal experience that there is far more resources available to you than you may realize! Just one that has blessed my life & countless others, is Energy Healing or Energy Work.

Issue that we sometimes struggle with have roots that are becoming increasing more accessible. Issue that you may have no idea are alive & resonating within your body.

Isn't that great news though, that we can get to the core of things & take care of them once & for all & not have to keep trying to medicating them away. Now, I am not saying that medication does not have it's place. I know very well it does. My personal experience has shown however, that the more you can take care of what is really going on, the more the "symptoms" or "stuff" we struggle or suffer with quite literally take care of itself.

With the reach & application of Energy Work, Energy Work Practitioners are able to recognize & clear up even generational issues that one may be carrying around contributing, sometimes quite heavily, to their depression or other struggles. Generation issues can also be understood by describing them as cellular memories. It is programing in your DNA that gets passed on to you just as your eye color, hair texture & other attributes do.

What this means in Energy Work terms, is that you literally carry around with you the vibrations in your body that your ancestor did that they suffered with. Whatever the emotion, the trauma or other energetic residue that is affecting you, resulting in suffering & struggle, & in this case, depression, was the same stuff your ancestor did ump-teen years ago!

Again, the great thing is, whether it is generational residue hanging out, false beliefs being carried around or some other energetic vibration bogging you down, IT CAN BE CLEARED UP.
Working with clients in a one on one consultation, an experienced Energy Work practitioner can quickly & effectively get to the heart of an issue & assist you in doing so.

Now, I feel very strongly that every individual has the ability to receive direct inspiration for their own situation, meaning that every person has the ability to know what is right for them. If you are being led & guided to Energy Work, there is a reason for it. Please follow that inner guidance you are given.

Very often with depression, one may not even want to seek help. But, at one point, they know they need it. They begin to open to & acknowledge that something needs to be done. They get "sick & tired" of being "sick & tired". Something within them knows there is better. Someone or something comes across their path that shed just enough light that they can see, if only in blurred vision, that there is better way to live. There is hope.

I encourage you, or if someone you know is struggling with depression, to look into this information or share this information. It just may be exactly what you or they are meant to hear.

We do get to choose!

2009-10-07T09:46:00.002-06:00

I have been thinking about this alot lately. But more, I've been living it!

What I am talking about here is the choice to choose joy.

It is obvious that we have plenty of opportunities in this life to choose fear, to choose despair, to choose etc. etc. etc. But the funny thing is, most of the time we don't realize we are choosing it! It just seems to be what is "happening" to us, right?

Well, although there is much that seems to "happen" in life & many have very legitimate reasons to fear, or feel despair or worry, consider that in the moment of these experience, you have the opportunity to choose hope, to be willing to experience the joy available to you, even though whatever is going in your life.

The thing I have experienced so vividly that last several months of my life, is that even in the midst of everything seeming so dark or confusing, there is ALWAYS the same abundant source of light available!!! Maybe even more so! And when I acknowledge this, bit by bit, it begins to grow within my life & I experience it more & more! Funny how it all works huh!

Whatever your current challenges may be, there is also, in this very moment, the opportunity & the "seeds" available to experience joy, to experience peace. Regardless of "what is", be open to remembering, to feeling, to seeing the gifts of joy. The more you do, the more you'll experience & the more you are giving life to it.

Just remember this one thing....keep moving forward. And more, please remember that not a single being is meant to live this life alone. Reach out to those around you. Talk with someone. Give a hug. You just may be answering another's prayer to!!!

Energy Profiling & Parenting

2009-08-12T15:12:00.010-06:00

I absolutely LOVE this video (below)! I relate so directly with this moms experience. I have the gift of dominant Type 2 movement & my 4 year old little boy has the awesome gift of a dominant Type 3 movement. (I even have a husband with a gift of a dominant Type 3 movement to!) I've written other posts about some of my experiences with my son. I have 5 other children, but seem to have experienced the most struggle with him. Even having the resource of Energy Work to beautifully support me, I am understanding SO much more thanks to Energy Profiling! I am actually developing a very healthy & even fun relationship with him now that I know what I know.

For me, parenting him has been a challenge. The answer for me has come through, 1) knowing, embracing & living my own truth, 2) knowing, embracing & even celebrating his truth, & 3) asking for & following the inner guidance & inspiration I am given. Which just happens to be EXACTLY what Carol Tuttle shares with this mom who wrote to her in the video clip below!

As parents, we have the inherit gift available to us for direct inspiration & support for these sacred steward ships we are given with these precious children. Pray for it. Ask for. Be open to receiving it & follow what guidance you are given.

Now, affirming & living my own truth is something I get to do everyday. Just like you. And to do so, naturally supporting & developing a healthier relationship with my child is a gift that is beyond words! I cherish that fact that I am literally helping him living his truth as I live mine. Talk about a Win-Win!!!

I also celebrate the gift I have been given to see him in the light of truth. To literally experience what a Gift he is! I'm not talking about "mere" positive thinking here. I am talking about feeling his amazing presence & the joy I experience as I acknowledge this! Now, as long as I don't judge it or use unsupportive perspectives - even in the moment of a temper tantrum- we both are supported & his natural fiery expression returns to a place of balance. I love the guidance Carol gave here. Take a look for yourself.

P.S. Before you watch this, please remember this applies to ANY & ALL parent/child relationships. Regardless of what energetic movement relationship dynamic you have. Be you, follow your inner guidance, "behold you little one", honor them & watch the seemingly "magic" unfold!

Question of the Week 8.6.09 from Carol Tuttle on Vimeo.

Dressing You Truth live online in 6 days!

2009-08-12T14:41:00.005-06:00

I am so excited for all of you out there! I had my own Dressing Your Truth experience over a year ago & LOVE putting on my body clothing & jewelry that beautifully express who I am! The movement of these tangible items I put on my body are in perfect harmony with my innate movement. This feels SO great & is so honoring to who & what I am.

Whole being & whole life health, wellness & well being benefits are being experienced as a natural result. What a fun & simple way to nurture, & even naturally improve, your who being, your relationships, finances etc. When you are living in harmony with the truth of who you are, effortlessly radiating & reflecting this, expressing it further & even much more clearly with the clothing, jewelry, hair & make-up you choose to put on your body, your life can naturally be in more harmony & balance in every aspect. The beauty that is unfolding in lives is something every women, - every human being - deserves to experience for themselves!

You will have the opportunity to do so for yourself in just 6 days from the comfort of your own home. This course will be yours forever. You can go back & review it at anytime. Click here to look into this now. Enjoy!

The Gift of Men & their sacred roles as Fathers

2009-08-10T13:02:00.008-06:00

I wrote a few post back about what Gifts we as women truly are. It is such a beautiful thing that we as women are coming to know, to understand & live this truth more fully each day.

All women, even if they do not have any of their own children, are mothers. Its the very essence of how we are made & who we are. I love to see mothers, in any sense of the word, coming to know & celebrate their unique mothering style & movement. This truly is a beautiful thing!

Equal to this, is the Gift of men & their sacred roles as fathers. Again, just as women, men discovering & embracing their truth, including this sacred role they hold- regardless of if they have children of their own or not- is so vital to the health, wellness & well being, not only of themselves, but of those around them as well.

Study after study have been completed & documented about the importance & vital need of fathers. (Please keep in mind, that I am referring to the traditional role of the father in the home,AND also EVERY man that realizes & lives his truth & the indescribable gift he offers by his very presence, whether having children or not.) We see over & over the condition of individuals, marriages & families when a man has forgotten or does not know, nor honor who & what he is.

By that same token however, we are also seeing & experiencing what beauty unfolds in the lives of children, marriages, whole families, places of work, communities, etc., when these men learn, acknowledge & embrace their own truth. And in that, it naturally occurs that they also do so for their wives, mothers, children, etc. Its just the beautiful & natural way it works.

So how do you support the men in your life to do so? By seeing your truth & this truth of who & what they are. By creating opportunities for them to shine, you holding this truth, this vision of their truth, even if they cannot see it at the moment.

Miracles happen when one simply opens the space for, acknowledges & "holds" another in the light of truth. And the beautiful thing is, the more that you acknowledge & support another in their truth, you are naturally supported in your own. So enjoy this Gift....the Gift of you, of your spouse & the beauty that you literally create together, just by being you - learning, living & embracing the truth of who & what you each are.

Here is an inspiring & heart touching story of a man taking his sacred roles to heart.

Engage in Your Own Inner Wisdom

2009-08-08T20:15:00.003-06:00

“Once you engage your own inner wisdom, you can change or improve your habits of thought, your emotions, and your behaviors…and create a more positive and joyful life experience right away,” Dr. Northrup says. “This process, when engaged in regularly, heals both your present and your future. It also enables you to live a life full of joy, meaning, and purpose—right here, right now.”

What would your life be like if you learned how to respect your body as though it were a precious creation—as valuable as a beloved friend?
What if you no longer lived in fear of germs or cancer?
What would happen if you truly trusted your body’s messages?

"...ponder these questions......lasting health, wholeness, pleasure, and joy are only possible when we discover and practice behaviors associated with these same qualities.....the time to listen to your body’s wisdom is now!"

What a joy & honor to teach & share with you the life enhancing science of your own being & the simple & innate process, the innate "art" of "Dancing to the Music". Simply & naturally acknowledging & engaging in your own inner wisdom & natural movement.

Enjoy the health, wellness, well being & all the other beautiful fruits that naturally unfold as you discover, experiencing & living more fully each day, the Gift you truly are!

The Gift of Women

2009-08-06T19:33:00.004-06:00

This meant as no slight to the wonderful Gift that men are. I just feel that each & every woman & girl hold such profound gifts by the truth, the very reality, of who & what they are. The suffering & struggle that so many have experienced is in large part due to the fact that we as women have not been living our truth as freely & fully as we can. But we are given so much beautiful support & all the is necessary for us to start doing so NOW.

The world is so blessed by every single soul & women offer special gifts that this world, & all those in it, need. As individuals & as a whole, we are all benefited through just one woman at a time learning, living & loving more fully the beautiful Gift that she already is.

So how can we support ourselves, our daughters & all women- ALL people for that matter, in learning, living & loving their own truth? President Gordon B. Hinckley says it so beautifully in this quote referring to women, but this applies to every soul:

"The women in our lives are creatures endowed with particular qualities, divine qualities, which cause them to reach out in kindness and with love to those about them. We can encourage that outreach if we will give them opportunity to give expression to the talents and impulses that lie within them. In our old age my beloved companion said to me quietly one evening, “You have always given me wings to fly, and I have loved you for it.”

Simply & yet beautifully put.

Get an education..what a great way to create!

2009-08-01T09:36:00.008-06:00

Its a pretty well know fact that what you feed you give life to. So why not feed what you want to create, by gaining an education. If your mind is going to think about something, give it something to think about that supports & edifies you & others. What a great way to use your innate & natural gifts of creation.

Gain an education & understanding about your own magnificent being. Learn what gifts your children & spouse truly hold. Learn "what is right" about you & others.

Maybe even learn about the ocean & the wildlife there, about the wild flowers in your back yard, or maybe learn about how a vehicle works if that speaks to you. Learn about the great beauty & amazing gifts that truly are already within & all around you. In doing so, you are literally giving life to what is wanted, by your simple consciousness & acknowledgement, by experiencing for yourself that it already is.

You'll look around one day & realize that you effortless created something really beautiful, just by your being aware & conscious of truth, of the beauty that already exists. The end result or creation turns out to be just really "yummy icing" on an already very fulfilling "cake".

I think this is what is meant by "joy in journey". What a gift this truly is.

Acknowledge the gifts before you

2009-07-31T13:35:00.009-06:00

At the end of my last post, I wrote that creating what is wanted, begins with realizing, by acknowledging, the gifts already before you.

Lets use creating a work of art, such as a painting, for an example of this here.

You would "acknowledge" the paint, the paint brush, the canvas & whatever resources you have available to you to create this work of art. You having learned & now knowing for yourself that each is a gift, with a purpose to help you create the beautiful painting you want to create. You would then organize & use these gifts given you, to bring forward & into fruition the inspiration within you. Let me repeat that... bringing forward the inspiration within you. The beauty that already is. That you can already feel & see.

What do you want to create? Is it a book, a beautiful work of art, maybe just a really yummy, healthy & quick meal for your family?

Maybe its something "bigger". Do you want to create more financial freedom & abundance? Do you want to create a great job that allows you to use & develop your innate gifts, allowing you to make great money at something you really love?

Maybe its something even more foundational. Do you want to create a beautiful & edifying marriage that fills both you & your spouse with joy & fulfillment? Do you want to create a home for your children that edifies & honors them in the Gift that they are, to bless & benefit them now & throughout their lives?

Whatever the creation you want to create, to have a knowledge & understanding of the resources, tools & even laws that govern creation is beautifully supportive. But what actually gives life, what actually creates, is what you feel, what you see...what already exists within you. Then creation becomes an act of cultivation. Your creation is simply the joy & fruits of realized potential. Even a natural extension & beautiful expression of you.

What a beautiful level to create from. And when creating at such a high level, your creation will be also!

Create something beautiful

2009-07-30T19:47:00.029-06:00

I wrote a post a bit ago that quoted from this same talk. I share

this here now, because what you FEEL as you watch this will

speak directly to you at a level that is beyond words.

The FEELING is where your creation is given life. You want to

create something beautiful? Something that fulfills that yearning

in your being? Then first look around you, even in the mirror & see

the beauty that already is. Feel it. Feel it full out. Wow huh?!

Recognize what "something beautiful" truly is. What it FEELS

like. Enjoy the beauty that unfolds as you create from this

feeling place of "something beautiful". Your thoughts, your

behavior, the inspiration for action that is needed & all other

necessary details will show up to support you in this, in this

choice, in this now clear feeling place of "something beautiful".

Enjoy the beautiful Gift of You as an innate creator.

*P.S. Remember....To create what is wanted, begins

with realizing, by acknowledging, the gifts that

are already before you.

Energy Profiling Course with my son

2009-07-23T12:56:00.014-06:00

I want to share with you a great experience I just had with my 4 year old son that has a dominant Type 3 movement in his innate make-up.

He was next to me playing while I was watching one section of the online Energy Profiling course, that reads "Energies in Nature". In this section, Carol goes over these four movements or "Type's", by showing them so beautifully expressed in the nature around us. She also shows during this section, several pictures in nature of each Type with music that is perfect for each expression. (You could literally feel a Type 1 being set free just by watching this! It was so amazing to watch just pictures of nature and have it move me so much.)

Well, when it came to the Type 3 examples, he stopped what he was doing, walked right up close to the monitor & was totally enthralled! It shows the tiger, the lion & the hawk, etc. He looks at me really excited & very expressively says, "I like that!" Then he starts dancing to the music! It was so GREAT to watch this! Soon as the Type 3 depiction was over though he was swiftly out of here, of course.

This "little" guy knows who he is. It is such an awesome gift of someone with a dominant Type 3 expression to have such a certainty about themselves. It is very inspiring ...even from a 4 year old.

But it gets even better. I was reviewing this section just a second ago & my 20 month old son comes up to me wanting to be on my lap. Well, it just happened to be at the part when it showed this same slide show with music perfect for the Type being depicted. And it was his dominate Type, Type 1.

He doesn't say a whole lot of words right now, but in his very animated expression, he was pointing at the pictures & "talking" excitedly. He then started bobbing up & down on my lap & clapping his hands to the music! I, of course, celebrated right along with him!

What a great resource to even honor our children with! This was such a beautiful experience for me.

Our children will tell us who they are, if we listen. Then we get the joy & honor of reflecting this back to them, simply by beholding it ourselves & celebrating it with them!

An added bonus!

2009-07-22T15:45:00.013-06:00

In celebration of people learning, living & loving their truth in a big way with the 50% discount on the online Energy Profiling Course that Carol Tuttle is offering for the next 2 days, I am also offering a GREAT added bonus.

Our Consultations are regularly $125 for a 1 hour session, but for all those who complete this online Energy Profiling Course, you'll receive your Consultation for $62. That is 50% off! I am going to offer this for all Consultations scheduled between now & August 1st. Just contact us & we'll get you scheduled.

I am going until August 1st with this to give you time to complete this course. This extra support can go a long way, anytime we learn something new. Especially something as foundational as a fuller understanding of who you are!

Sometimes when we learn truth, we have a lot of "stuff" come up. You know those old patterns, beliefs & relationship dynamics that are not in harmony with truth? Why suffer & struggle with this? There is no need to!

Whether you are just having questions with all of this, or feel like you are pushing against some current, our one-on-one support Consultations blend both the healing art & life enhancing science of Energy Work to provide a comprehensive & beautifully supportive resource.

It truly is so very important to every aspect of your life to know the truth of who & what you are. Just look at the effects of believing & living something other than this.

You, your life, your relationships & what you have to offer this world are far to beautiful & of infinite value for you to suffer or struggle any longer. Your family needs you. This world needs you. You need to know you & feel what it means to be you! I don't think I can express in words how great this feels!

P.S. Remember that everyone who completes the online Energy Profiling Course will also receive a huge discount when Dressing Your Truth goes live online next month. This will be amazing.

What a timely call! Others loving your truth.

2009-07-22T13:28:00.008-06:00

This call is SO timely. I LOVE how things work. It goes in perfect sync with my last couple of posts. I love how Carol so clearly articulates these truths. With the last caller, Carol goes into this exact same innate process I just shared with you 2 posts ago. Here you go:

When going for your truth sometimes you have to ruffle a few feathers!

As always, if you are feeling that you'd like more one-on-one support in this or are having questions that you'd like answered, please do not wait to contact us. That is what we are hear for. You, your life & your precious relationships are far to beautiful for you to not be living them as freely & fully as you can. Take care & enjoy!

Energy Profiling 50% off for the next two days

2009-07-22T12:21:00.001-06:00

I want to share a great offer with you that is only available for the next 2 days. Thursday at midnight the sale is over though, so take advantage of this gift being offered to you now. You can purchase the online Energy Profiling course right now for 50% off! It is just over $12 AND, everyone who purchases the online Energy Profiling Course will receive an amazing discount on Dressing Your Truth when it comes online. Dressing Your Truth comes online August 18th, but the week before is going to be phenomenal opportunity for all those who purchase this online Energy Profiling Course! Take advantage of this opportunity by clicking here now. Enjoy!

A simple process

2009-07-22T11:45:00.002-06:00

What do you do when you are in the moment, experiencing someone outside of you judging who & what you are? What do you do when you feel others validated non-truth for you?

First of all, notice it! And notice how it feels. It clearly does not feel good! If others were treating you in a way that validated & honored your truth, you'd feel completely satisfied & edified.

Second, remember that everything outside of you is only a reflection of within. That's exactly what is happening. They are simply reflecting non-truth that you believe & feel about yourself right back to you. What gifts our relationships truly are! They are simply playing a great role for you here to be conscious of what you need to, to come into more truth & live it & its beautiful gifts more fully.

When you notice this, are aware of & acknowledge this truth, be very clear on how it all feels. How does it feel to acknowledge the fact that they are actually giving you a gift? A completely different experience isn't it. Be really conscious of what you are experiencing here.

Then notice, being aware of where you are still judging your truth & your gifts. From this place, make the choice to now love it. To embrace & even celebrate your truth for what it is, a beautiful Gift to you & others.

We are at a point in our progression where we are learning & living truth more fully. We are learning to use what we've been given in a place of more understanding & consciousness. We are learning to use what we've been given, to simply be who & what we are, to bless & benefit our own lives & the lives of others. Our relationships are playing such a great role in all this.

The acceptance, validation & love for truth, your truth, that you emanate is louder than any words you could ever speak. You'll be amazed at how much you will effortless improve your relationships, how others relate to you & even the health of those around you. There is something beautiful that occurs when one person knows, lives & loves their own truth. It literally opens the door for all those around them to do the same.

Its a very simple process, but yields beautiful results. Try it & experience it for yourself. Remember that you are learning, we each are everyday. And, remember that those around you are doing the same. Enjoy this simple process of living & loving your truth more fully.

It is such a gift to be able have so much more joy in the journey, as we simply acknowledge & embrace truth.

How do I get others to love my truth?

2009-07-22T10:02:00.004-06:00

I had a conversation yesterday with someone who is so very dear to my heart. In talking with her about some great things unfolding in each of our lives, she mentioned to me that in learning about her dominant element & movement, she is struggling with others loving & not judging it.

(I have to tell you how much I love being around this beautiful person. When she is freely feeling & loving this movement innate in her, she is SO fun! Some of the the most fun times of my life have been when I am with her. I love it!)

Anyway, the thought that immediately came to me, was she still was not loving this movement herself. She liked it & loved how it felt to live it, but obviously was still judging it.

I shared with her that every relationship that judged her in some way, was just a reflection to her of what she felt & believed within herself, about herself. Sometimes we do a really good & convincing job teaching people who we are not & teaching them that we are "less than". And I promise that what you teach someone about who you are, is exactly how they will treat you.

Just remember, that the majority of what we teach & learn is unspoken.

So how do you teach someone your truth? How to do you get others to love your truth? By you learning, living AND LOVING it yourself. People will learn. Even those closest to you.

The natural occurrence of how energy & life works, is you get back what you give out. If you are clearly loving who you are, people pick up on that. If you are sending out, "something is wrong with me" or "it's not okay to be so bubbly", people pick up on that.

In my next post, I'm going to share with you a very simple processes that you can use to live & love your own truth more fully. Enjoy the beauty & truth that is reflected back to you from others as you do so!

Learning through joy, my love story

2009-07-21T09:04:00.013-06:00

I shared a cute story recently about my first "I love you" with my husband. He, of course, having a dominant Type 3 movement in his innate make-up took no time telling me that he loved me. I, in my dominant Type 2 movement, was still feeling the whole thing out. And although I really liked him & did not want to hurt him by not reciprocating, my "questioning" response, "Um, I think I love you to?", was not what he was expecting.

Our first "I love you" was over 12 years ago, way before Energy Profiling & all the great insight, understanding & resources we have now, but it would have been REALLY helpful! It would have been supportive to understand this then. It would have saved me alot of struggling within myself & suffering "trying to figure the whole thing out." (Key word being "trying" here.) Not to mention what my hubby felt!

We laugh about this now, having an understanding & seeing this same movement beautifully play out all the time in our marriage. We actually have alot of fun with it now!

I love to be able to see him for who he is. To look at him & really see him. Now that I have more clarity on who I am, & not so wrapped up in "what's wrong" with me & consuming so much of my energy, time & thought processes trying to get rid of it, it's amazing what I can hear & see! As I am learning more about, learning to move in much more harmony with & love my own innate "music"; I can effortlessly see, hear & feel his MUCH more clearly. So much so sometimes, it brings tears to my eyes what I behold in him.

Having directly opposite movements, we pushed alot of each other's buttons at first. We each were both still trying to know who we were as individuals, so that was a whole other dynamic in the mix. But I have to tell you, that I love, with all that I am, what we have today. I don't think I can adequately put into words what I feel for him & for the beauty that is our marriage. It is absolutely amazing what two beautiful beings can come together & naturally create.

We are still learning daily of course, but we are having MUCH more joy & alot more fun along the way. I absolutely LOVE that we get to learn now, not so much by suffering & struggle, but by simply learning about what beautiful beings we truly are. By enriching our understanding of ourselves & of each other, by acknowledging this & simply honoring, even celebrating it! It truly gives meaning to "learning through joy".

The other great thing about this, is we are simultaneously "teaching through joy". It fills my heart with so much joy, to know that my husband & I are teaching our children what it looks like & more, what it FEELS like, to have a healthy & beautiful marriage. We are also helping teach them, the Gift that they individually are, because we can now see it to! What a gift. What an eternal gift & legacy we get to give & leave to our children. As we simply learn, live & love our own truth & each others.

It begins with you

2009-07-21T07:48:00.003-06:00

As an Energy Work Practitioner, I see over & over the effects that the home has on the individual. I have also seen very clearly & have come to understand more fully, how directly influential the individual is on the home as well. The two go hand in hand. Healthy & happy homes create & support healthy & happy individuals, & healthy & happy individuals create & support healthy & happy homes. You support one, you support the other.

This is the grass roots of individual lives & of future marriages, families & whole communities. Its a pretty humbling realization to see what a beautiful influence we truly do have, beginning with ourselves & our own homes.

In my last blog, I wrote about "singing the song" to your children. But, what if you have learned a false version of "the song", this truth, of who & what you are? What if you never had your song sung back to you? What if you did not have a parent who knew their own "song", let alone be able to "hear & sing" you yours?

Are you continuing this pattern & pathway? Are you suffering & struggling with a false sense of self? If your life is so filled with trying to overcome & correct non-truths & their effects within your being & life experiences, how can you possibly see the truth or "sing the song" to another? How can you even hear the music?

Consider that what you are experiencing, is simply a gift to help you learn, know & live a better way. Every parent does the best with what they have. But thank goodness we keep learning!

Regardless of what your circumstances may have been & regardless of what you have learned, & maybe even have taught up to this point, you get to begin today to be your own healthy parent & a healthy parent to your children. It begins with you first making this choice to do so. All that is necessary will show up & honor you in this beautiful choice. It's just the way it works. And I am so very thankful!

Singing the song

2009-07-21T06:46:00.007-06:00

I read a quote yesterday that so beautifully articulated a gift that we have in our relationships.

"A sibling is someone who knows the song in your heart & can sing the words to you when you've forgotten."

How do we teach our children this? How do we teach them to listen to the "song" of their sibling, or any other human being, & reflect this back to them?

By you doing so first. By you simply hearing & singing back to your child their own beautifully unique song. As a parent, this is an innate ability. As a human being in general, we all have this ability. Sometimes we do need to "learn" this though. The majority of what we teach & learn, is unspoken.

With my first child, I was given a poem called, "How do I learn just who I am?" by Ruth Reardon:

"I learn from you who I am. Within your eyes I see reflected back to me. With your voice I hear how you see me. You are the mirror that I look into, & mold the image of myself. I sense the way you hold me, & from your touch, I feel my from, my shape. And if I like what I see in your eyes, your voice, your touch, my heart responds & reaches out. Then its reaching, grows & grows until I see myself as separate. Then separate self in turn-can love you back. Because you taught me who I am & I am loved."

What a beautiful & most sacred role we truly are given as parents. To help another human being know their own identity. For the truth of a child is one of the most important gifts you can help them to discover. Everything else in their lives will come from this place.

To help them build this foundation for health & joy, begins now. Regardless of what you have learned & maybe have taught up to this point, it is never to late to be the parent that you want to be. You are given the choice to begin to today to teach truth. All that is necessary will show up to support & honor you in this choice. To support you in knowing for yourself what truth is, of your child & of yourself.

Relationships!

2009-07-16T19:58:00.017-06:00

Relationships are my life! Besides the fact that I am a wife, a mother to six, a daughter, a sister, a friend, etc. , I am simply a human being. And being a human being, relationships are an integral & foundational part of all of our lives. They are such a fundamental part of our existence. Relationships really are just part how we are made & how we work. This constant action, interaction & reaction of energies.

I LOVE that in this work, you will find some of the most powerful relationship support & educational resources available to you. Not to mention learning some of the most simple & practical, real-life skills to bless & benefit your relationships NOW.

It's pretty revealing about how important & universal this relationship dynamic -this constant natural action, interaction & reaction of energies- is in our lives, when you learn & come to understand that the same exact innate skills & natural ability development that apply for healthy & happy homes, are the same that apply for a healthy & happy inner home; the state of our emotional health & the health of our minds, our physical bodies & our spirits as well. Pretty beautiful how it all works!

Any & every relationship is a gift to you. Whether its with a spouse, your child or even your own body. Just remember, that your relationships are mirrors to you. But, they are also beautiful windows of opportunity as you gain this understanding & awareness.

Learn more about yourself. Get clear on who you are & what gifts you offer. That is where is starts. Then learn about who your loved ones are. You'll be so amazed at how the beauty naturally unfolds.

This quote I read yesterday is so perfect & was so timely for my writing this:

"The whole purpose of education is to turn mirrors into windows." Sydney J. Harris

Here is a GREAT relationship resources. This will benefit everyone. If you are single, there is a HUGE gift here especially for you! I can't say enough how beneficial this call is to all relationships though. Including parenting!

"Energy Profiling Love Stories, How to Create Your Own!"

Enjoy!

One simple shift

2009-07-10T12:13:00.020-06:00

There is one simple shift that you can make right now. The resources here beautifully & very gracefully support you in this. Making this one choice will forever bless your life, in EVERY aspect. And it is something as natural as simply opening your eyes, the eyes of your heart to be exact. Sometimes we have to practice this innate ability, but its fruits are SO worth it.

Here's a quote I read in an email I received:

~ Change the way you look at the world, and the world you look at changes ~

This email newsletter was from Carolyn Cooper, the founder of Calyco Healing, entitled, "Look for the Good".

In learning about how the energy dynamic works in our beings & in our lives, it is clear what a gift "looking for the good" is to yourself & to others. But the only way to really grasp what a profound & yet grace-filled gift lies herein, is to experience it for yourself. This one simple shift from "what's wrong" with you & others, to looking for & seeing "what's right" with you & others, is one of the most simple shifts that you can make in your life & one of the most powerful. This seemingly small & simple choice to see the good, to see the truth.

Learn more about what is "right" about yourself & others. Enrich your understanding of who & what you are. Support yourself & others in truth & you'll experience a whole lot more of it! You'll be amazed at what you begin to see & experience in your life.

You'll also be amazed & even relieved to learn how so much of what you thought or believed was wrong with you, is actually a gift! And more, in this light & further understanding, these gifts that you may have learned to use in "survival" mode or been using unconsciously, just following old patterns that no longer support you or others, will naturally come into more balance in your life & bless you & others as they are so perfectly created to.

Experience this gift for yourself. The opportunities & all that is necessary for you, will show up to support & honor you in this choice.

I love this quote Carolyn gave at the end of this newsletter:

"Earth's crammed with heaven and every bush is burning but only he who sees takes off his shoes." --Elizabeth Barrett Browning

What will you see & experience today?

Daily support yourself!

2009-07-08T13:39:00.052-06:00

I wanted to add something to my last post, but it is important enough that I chose to give it it's own post.

What I am talking about here, is the gift in daily supporting yourself. In making the choices in your everyday life that support & nurture you in living in a place of more truth.

When it comes to doing so with the resources given us in this field, it can be helpful & insightful to have an understanding of a fundamental working of Energy Therapy.

Energy Work is all about "shifts". Energy Therapy resources are utilized to take care of core issues, at a core or energetic level, that may otherwise block, inhibit or limit you, which then allows a natural "shift" within your being. This fundamental "shift", literally frees you up & supports you to more fully be, do & have as you are innately & beautifully created to.

In the recorded money clearing session that I wrote about in my last post, Carol expresses how beneficial it is to continue after we experience these beautiful shifts in our lives, by supporting ourselves daily in this.

Just one of the most simple & fun ways I have been given to consistently & gracefully support myself daily in this, is in gaining the further understanding & revealing insight about my own authentic innate nature & that of my loved ones. Energy Profiling is a natural progression in this Energy Work field. And it definitely has been in my own life.

I've written about just a few of my own experiences lately with this fuller understanding under the "June" link on my blog archive. I've written about a recent, very vivid, "ah-ha" moment with my hubby ("Type 2's & stick'in to the plan!") & some experiences I have had with my son that has the awesome gift of a dominant Type 3 & secondary Type 1 movement in his innate make up. This is a very BIG movement. And with my own innate nature, it has been a bit of a challenge for me. I don't think I can adequately put into words how much this has blessed me in my parenting him & in the dynamic of our relationship. And will yet to I am sure! I continue to learn everyday from having this further understanding & life enhancing awareness.

The beautiful thing is, this insight doesn't just stop there. Once you know your dominate energy type, the Dressing Your Truth system, (soon to be launched live on the Internet as well), takes you beyond intellectual understanding & awareness of you unique energetic organization & expression.

Dressing Your Truth further supports you on a daily basis by literally putting on your body the texture, fabrication, chroma, design lines & shapes that are in perfect harmony with your innate movement. This includes clothing, jewelry & your hair. And it is SO fun to!

I have to tell you how great it feels to put on your body clothing that is perfect harmony with who you are. It's amazing actually! When you do so, you actually feel even more clearly this innate movement of who you are & it is so edifying! In listening to that last part of that recorded money clearing session Carol is sharing with us all, we learn how powerfully supportive & even needful it is to "bring" or "connect" truth, our truth, into our physical experience. To "get it" in the body. It is literally part of how our beings learn. Dressing Your Truth naturally & gracefully supports us in this & did I mention it's really fun to!

Enjoy the gift of supporting yourself everyday in the Gift that you truly are. Feel free to leave a comment here & share with me your own experiences in this. I'd love to celebrate with you!

What is money in your life?

2009-07-08T08:12:00.045-06:00

One of the area's we have seemed to create needless struggle in our lives, is in the area of money. It is so clear that this is NO LONGER NECESSARY. And if you choose to stay there, it'll just get more & more painful until you listen. I think we are learning what we need to here. It is time to learn & live the truth about money.

In general, we have carried around alot of false beliefs around money. We have even created money to be far more than it is or even can be. No wonder why it looks like what it does for many right now! Trying to get our attention? Definitely!

When the gifts that we are given are acknowledged & honored in the truth of what they are, a naturally occurring balance comes into play. And it feels & looks great in our lives, because it is naturally created & meant to be this way!

It is time to live truth more fully. And for many, this issue with money is just one way that they are being given an opportunity to step into this. We are also being given such immensely supportive resources to assist us in this.

Just one of these is a beneficial online recording of an Energy Therapy session Carol Tuttle did with a woman wanting & ready to move past the limitations with money in her life.

Because of the nature of Energy Therapy, even just watching this will benefit you.

Click here to watch this for yourself.

This recorded session will bring into consciousness blocks you may have. But more, it will also help you to finally clear them up. Carol uses a technique called EFT, or "Emotional Freedom Technique", as well as guided imagery. The great thing about Energy Therapy though, is that regardless of the tool you use, the core issues that are ready to be taken care of, will be.

I have chosen Calyco Healing because of how simple, pure & streamlined it is. It also allows me a beautifully & thoroughly comprehensive resource as I am working in a client-practitioner setting. I love to see the beauty this work helps free up & flow in peoples lives, no matter what technique was utilized to assist & support them in doing so.

You, your life & your relationships are far too precious & far too infinitely important for you to waste anymore time suffering or struggling with money or any other issue.

Support yourself & your family by watching this recorded session. It will bless you FAR beyond money. It's just the way it works.

Take care & enjoy these resources that are being provided to you!

Is Calyco Healing right for you?

2009-07-02T15:17:00.015-06:00

I just listened to a great call & wanted to share it here on my blog. Carolyn Cooper, the founder of Calyco Healing, offered a call last night entitled, "Is Calyco Healing Right for You?" It was recorded so I listened to it today & I loved it. There is some really great insight in this call.

On this call, Carolyn invited four of her students that have been trained & certified in this pure & simple, yet beautifully comprehensive Energy Therapy modality, to share some of their own experiences. It was a really neat experience for me to sit here listening & hear how many of their experiences were so similar to my own when I first came into this work.

When I began to learn more about our innate energetic nature, I was so fascinated by this reality of our beings & innately knew it was something that I needed to know more about. I knew without a doubt that I was to learn & become trained & certified in this modality.

It was really an amazing experience to be sitting in a classroom learning this, & feeling, (“vaguely remembering” sounds more descriptively accurate), at the same time that I already knew it. It was just so innate to understand & work with our beings in this way!

And because I followed the very clear inspiration I was given, I, my family & others I have worked with have been SO beautifully blessed.

Just as Carolyn wrote in an article recently, "Energy Healing from a Gospel Perspective", Calyco Healing is such a gift that we are given at this time to meet us where we are at & help us move to the next level. This is a beautiful & natural part of life- progression & "line upon line". We learn as we go. And we are given what we need all along the way. That is why I see, & know for myself, that we are given this resource.

P.S. In this article she also so simply & clearly tells you what Energy Healing (a.k.a. Energy Therapy) is & why it is so beautifully blessing so many lives, with additional insight from a "Gospel Perspective".

I have always known that Calyco Healing was in perfect alignment with what I know & the way I live my life. And I think it is wonderful that she wrote this article that so beautifully articulates into words what I have known in my heart.

She also goes into a bit about something that is so beneficial in this modality, the understanding, insight & the ability to directly work with "Generational" or "Ancestral" issues. ( For more visit CalycoHealing.com, on the "Energy Work FAQ's" page, under, "What is meant by "clearing generational issues"?)

Create something beautiful!

2009-07-01T15:21:00.019-06:00

It is innate within every human being to create. And to want to create. To create something beautiful brings us joy. It is very much living an innate truth of who & what we are to do so.

I love an address given in 2008 by President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, Second Counselor in the First Presidency of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, entitled, "Happiness, Your Heritage." He says about this innate desire to create:

"The desire to create is one of the deepest yearnings of the human soul. No matter our talents, education, backgrounds, or abilities, we each have an inherent wish to create something that did not exist before....Creation brings deep satisfaction and fulfillment. We develop ourselves and others when we take unorganized matter into our hands and mold it into something of beauty...."

"....to what end were we created? We were created with the express purpose and potential of experiencing a fullness of joy. Our birthright—and the purpose of our great voyage on this earth—is to seek and experience eternal happiness. One of the ways we find this is by creating things."

So what does this mean in our lives, with the further understanding we are being given in this fieldof Energy Work? How can this directly apply to us in our day to day experiences?

As I have come to understand more about my innate nature & how I work, I choose to honor that innate desire to create something beautiful by choosing opportunities, projects & hobbies that support me & allow me to move in & express my innate movement.

For example, in my having a Type 2 (Oxygen/water) dominant expression in my innate make-up, I like things that involve attention to detail. I also enjoy things that allow me to share & give of my heart & to connect with others in this way. Just one of these things I have created in this, is this very blog! I get to write about the details of some of my experiences, while sharing & giving of my heart to support others in this gift of understanding & living more fully their own innate beauty. It is very fulfilling & brings me & others joy.

Another example, is gardening. I love to be out in the dirt, planting, weeding, watering & caring for the plants & trees in my yard. This is also very grounding & "connecting" for me.

I have come to learn that "creating something beautiful" is truly an act of cultivation. Simply acknowledging & embracing what we've already been given, giving what we can & doing what we've been given to do, to allow the natural potential & innate beauty of these gifts already before us, to naturally come forward & into fruition.

In this, I consider my greatest creation & the one that brings me the most joy, is the gift I have been given to be a wife & a mom. What could be more beautiful than creating a marriage, a family life & a foundation for my children that not only brings me joy, but my spouse & my children now & as they grow? Nothing can or does compare to this.

In my own home, I like to use what I have been given to create an environment of connection, comfort & peace. And with alot of the Type 1 movement in my loved ones, things can get kind of crazy around here sometimes, but we do have alot of fun! One of the biggest gifts I have been given is to understand my husband & little ones ALOT more. And in that, to honor, even celebrate their innate movements, so that I move in much more harmony with them. That way we create together an environment that supports us all.

As a parent, maybe even especially as a mom within the home, the responsibility & the beautiful influence we have to create harmony, truly is ours. In a very literal way, it begins with us. And it is just so great to have the understanding & the resources to support us in this!

Here's another quote from this address:

"If you are a mother (or father), you participate with God in His work of creation—not only by providing physical bodies for your children but also by teaching and nurturing them. If you are not a mother (or father) now, the creative talents you develop will prepare you for that day, in this life or the next.

....we all have talents and gifts, every one of us. The bounds of creativity extend far beyond the limits of a canvas or a sheet of paper and do not require a brush, a pen, or the keys of a piano. Creation means bringing into existence something that did not exist before—colorful gardens, harmonious homes, family memories, flowing laughter."

I think one of the most confirming insights I have gained from my experiences in this Energy Work field, including with Calyco Healing, Energy Profiling & Dressing Your Truth, is that we create by our very presence. To think that we have such a beautiful influence by just being who we are, is pretty revealing about our truth!

I grasped this most clearly by using music as an analogy. Music has a way of creating an environment & atmosphere. It has its own way to uplift & to energize (a Type 1 movement), to calm, to comfort & connect us to our hearts (a Type 2 movement), to motivate us to get in action & get things done (a Type 3 movement), & it also has a way to bring a still & reflective reverie into our experience (a Type 4 movement).

This is the same with our own "innate music". As we come to recognize & embrace our innate movement or "music", we learn to create something beautiful, even by just being who we are. Then the "doings" can innately follow from this inspired place of truth, offering & contributing what only we can.

Here is one last quote from this same article:

"The more you trust and rely upon the Spirit, the greater your capacity to create. That is your opportunity in this life and your destiny in the life to come. Sisters, (& Brothers) trust and rely on the Spirit. As you take the normal opportunities of your daily life and create something of beauty and helpfulness, you improve not only the world around you but also the world within you."

That really sums it up so clearly. We use what we've been given, how we are innately created & intended to, as we follow the truth given & shown to us in our hearts. Our hearts know truth. They know beauty & they guide us therein. Enjoy creating something beautiful!

Energy Work & "living our truth"

2009-07-01T08:18:00.028-06:00

In this field of Energy Work, we are given further understanding & supportive insight for our innate skill & natural ability development. And in this, we are being beautifully supported to simply & naturally live more fully the truth of who & what we are.

Far beyond any remedial or "fix it" purposes, we are simply learning to use more productively what we've been given, & have available to us, in our own everyday lives. It is a such a gift to be experiencing this in my own life!

I'm not talking about anything that has to do with using the Law of Attraction, as in how to attract a bigger house or fancier car. Not that you can't have those things. But what I am talking about are the things that really matter. You know, those "small & simple" things that truly do matter most & are foundational to every thing else.

Like learning about the innate nature & natural workings of your being to support you in knowing how to experience & live with more peace & stability in your emotions. We learn how to gracefully create new & more supportive thinking habits & thought processes. We learn to take in life, experience it & processes it more fully as we go along. We learn to express & give of ourselves more freely. We learn to really see & experience for ourselves the gift of our spouse, our children or other family members & truly honor that! We learn to move through our life in a manner that supports & blesses ourselves & those around us.

What I am talking about here, has to do with you realizing & living the gifts that are already before you. Any results or "natural fruits" truly are just icing on the cake. "Joy in the journey" is actually a real thing. And we are being given such beautifully supportive further understanding, awareness & resources to assist us in this.

There is a beautiful gift received in our lives, when we come to the point, that we realize, regardless of anything else, regardless of what we are experiencing or think we need to get rid of, that we need to & that we get to, just live our truth.

I am coming to learn that alot of the things that we think are "wrong" with us, are actually gifts. And once this is understood & seen in this light, they truly have a way of balancing themselves out. Not to say we don't sometimes need to learn better ways of using what we've been given or need assistance sometimes to help us come to this place. Because we all have & may yet beautifully benefit from this, at certain times in our lives. I am so grateful that we do have such beneficial Energy Therapy tools, like the pure & simple Calyco Healing, to not only provide us with understanding & insight, but hands-on resources to directly assist & even "boost" us along the way.

As we are willing to learn, to know & to live our truth, we will come to know & experience for ourselves what this means. We truly are guided & given all that we need to honor us & support us in this choice. Truth has a way of making itself known & giving its own gifts as we simply allow it. As we come to recognize what truth is, acknowledge it, embrace it & then honor it, by the choices we make through out our lives - one seemingly "small & simple" choice at a time.

"I like reactions!" My Type 3 son

2009-06-25T20:56:00.007-06:00

I had a great experience yesterday with my awesome & very dynamic 4 year old son. He has the amazing gift of having a dominant Type 3 (Hydrogen/fire) movement, with a secondary Type 1 (Nitrogen/air) movement. Everything this child does is BIG! And alot of the time in his expression, he can be spontaneous. Needless to say, for me, in my nature, sometimes I get a bit overwhelmed.

He had been in the house most of the day & it was showing! I told him he needed to go outside & run around, but before he did, he came up to me, leaned in by my face & made a loud silly sound & laughed. I of course took care of this before I guided him out the door, but in my feeling a bit overwhelmed, I made a comment along the lines of, "If you keep this up hun, your going to get a big reaction out of me."

He looked at me with a cute grin & said, "I like reactions!" I told him I knew he did. Then he was out the door & onto his next adventure.

I told my husband, who just so happens to have the same dominant Type 3 & secondary Type 1 organization, when he came home from work that night. We both so laughed about this! This "little" guy knows who he is & is not afraid to let the world know!

That really is a great thing. I just get to be in harmony with it! And of course guide, support & provide him opportunities to help him cultivate & use his gifts & express his energy in ways that are supportive & constructive in his life & in the lives of others.

I have been given really great insight into this. Just as EVERY parent can.

I am just so grateful that I am not having to be in this parenting thing alone. WAY more than once, I have looked up & asked, "What can I do here to help this situation & to support him?!"

And ya know what, I am always given exactly what I need to do. I am finding, that alot of the time, the most powerful thing I can do, is to simply stand in my own truth & then to not react to the situation. To not react to him as if he were the situation. But simply recognize this is his natural reaction to his experience.

As I see him in the truth of who he is & the truth of the experience he is having & reflect this back to him, he naturally comes into more balance in his energies & there expression.

One example, was even today when he got all fired up over something his older brother did. And he let him know VERY CLEARLY that he did not like it! The only thing is, he was getting ready to physically hurt his brother, so I walked over to him, physical touched his arm & looked him in the eye & said, "We can see that you are really upset. We got it. That was not okay for your brother to do that."

When I did this, when his truth in this experience was acknowledged, you could just see the intensity of his emotion & wanting to physically react, come back into a place of natural balance for him. It was pretty amazing! Great learning experience for me in how to support him!!!

What is Body Profiling?

2009-06-25T19:22:00.013-06:00

Energy Profiling is a system & frame work for understanding more fully are innate human nature. It is based in the life enhancing science of the innate chemistry, the fundamental elemental organization, that makes up every thing in nature; including our physical bodies.

The movement, or energetic expression, of each element is also seen in all of nature & within our own beings. We see this innate movement expressed in our facial & other bodily features, in our body language & the way we move through life, in the way we behave, in the way we feel, think & even speak! It is also seen in personality, although this can be adapted throughout our lives.

"Body Profiling" is simply observing the natural expressions of these elemental movements in your body & body language, to support you in coming to the recognition & acknowledgment of your own Energy Profile.

Carol Tuttle recently gave a quote about Body Profiling on her blog, that gave me added insight. Here it is:

"The Body Profiling is where God used the movement of who we are and expressed that truth in the shapes and lines of our bone structure and body and facial features. We have empirically tested this. Which means we can consistently observe the same shapes and lines in people that exhibit similar behavior and personality tendencies."

Our Heavenly Father knew exactly what would best support & provide for us to fulfill our purposes & to live our full potential here. And that obviously includes our physical bodies! They truly are most sacred gifts. For they are a physical structure to experience, to express & develop more fully that truth, that beauty, that essence of who we truly are. Wow huh?!

Type 2's & stick'in to the plan!

2009-06-25T13:01:00.012-06:00

Here's an Energy Profiling "ah-ha" moment I had in my marriage

this last week:

So the other day, my husband & had I decided on a plan so that we each could go into town & do some very important service, without having to try and arrange a sitter so that we could go together. Which we love to do, its just that this service is so important to us, that we decided that even if it doesn't work out all the time for us to go together, we were making the decision to go anyway.

Well, I was going to get up bright & early, head into to town & spend the couple of hours that I was aware that this would take, the next morning. I planned it so that I would be getting back just in time for my husband to take our child to his cub scout activity on his way into town, to go take his turn. It was going to work out beautifully!

Well, as I pulled up to the house I was running a bit behind schedule so I honked the horn & expected to see everyone come out ready to go. NO ONE WAS READY! My husband just said to take our son myself & we'd talk about it when I got back.

So once my son got himself ready, I drove him to scouts & then myself back home, trying hard to not be so bugged about this all! I was beginning to feel really irritated towards my husband, but tired to do that self talk thing. "It really is okay. He can just go later. It really doesn't matter. It's not worth causing a rift between us." But these irritated feelings would not go away! This was feeling really important to me!

When I got out of the car, I told myself I was not going to act irritated with him. "I love him & I'm not going to make this a bigger deal than it is." But it sure felt like a big deal. Even though I knew it really wasn't, logically. The funny thing is, I had this very quiet impression, that it wasn't about him. But he was my focus. After all, he didn't stick to the plan!

And that's when I got my "Ah Ha!".

I became conscious of the fact that I was bothered because I put my energy into creating a detailed plan, it was going to work out perfectly, I was doing my part, but then it got completely thrown off course! It did not continue to flow like it was & I had to shift gears & go along another course. And this really bothered me!

At that moment, in acknowledging this, I literal felt my emotion begin to naturally return to a place of balance. I realized that I was not upset at him. He had no idea how much detailed planning I put into this. Nor how much this mattered to me. Because I didn't tell him. And I didn't even realize how much it mattered to me!

I acknowledged that it did matter to me & that it was okay. It was just a natural reaction to this experience. Then, I honored my truth in this experience, by sharing with my husband how it truly was important to me. I shared with him how I planned this in detail to flow beautifully & it didn't. And that was why I was upset. I felt absolutely no resentment or blame towards him at all! It was GREAT!

He apologized to me, having no idea that this mattered. He didn't think I would care if we just changed plans. He told me his reasoning for wanting to go later in the day. He shared with me his feelings & wants in this & I totally understood. Then, we created a new plan together, that was even better than the original plan!

We ended up going into town as a family & having a really fun day together. He spent the time he wanted to in service & I took our children & did some shopping. Then we met up & had dinner together at one of our favorite restaurants. When even got to try octopus for the first time together. It was really fun!

What a gift in our marriage & to our whole family! Check this Energy Profiling out...there really is something to this knowledge about our beings. Something amazingly accurate & powerfully supportive!

Part 3- Tell the truth, the whole truth!

2009-06-24T22:43:00.006-06:00

What a great motto to live by. The only thing is, are we really telling the whole truth?

So much of time, we, human beings in general, have been so caught up on the "what's wrong" with my life, with me, or even the "what's wrong with this world." Yes, the truth about this is that experiences of these do exists for us here in this perfectly created experience of contrast. How else would we be able to know & have a choice? It just is.

But the whole truth here, is that there is more. Are we telling, are we acknowledging & owning the truth about this? Truly the whole truth of our experience?

The whole truth of my experience with the loss of my baby, has been shown me all along the way. I truly have been "learning as I go". Just as we all get to & are beautifully created & provided to do.

Yes, I experienced a very painful loss. Yes, I do not have my baby to hold. But the whole truth of this experience is, that I have been given a most precious gift! The Gift that this small & precious life brought into mine, will forever bless me & my family as a whole. I made a choice at the very beginning to not waste the gift given me in & of this precious life. I was going to live the gifts I was being given here as fully as I could. And my choice has been honored & beautifully supported!

From the very beginning, the love & support on both sides of the veil, have been so clearly & beautifully given to me & my whole family. And more than once, out ward, very tangible, miracles have been given. These, blessing all involved, not just me. What beautiful touches, even out right embraces, of grace.

This has been such a beautiful experience for me to learn how to live more fully. And that is not just in experiencing & feeling full out the pain as we pass through it. Although that is part of it. It has also been shown to me very clearly in my experience, that this also means to progress, to naturally move forward & into living a life of joy! To live the whole gift of our experiences on this earth.

Regardless of the "why's" that we could go into, we have limited ourselves in having joy. THAT is obvious. (If we need to acknowledge anymore truth on any of this, we will be guided & provided to do just that.) But, by the same token, we are given this awareness & the ability to allow much, MUCH more joy into our lives. We are being given to use, to live, the gifts that we already have before us, to create something beautiful. Our own life of joy & in that, a legacy of joy. What a beautiful gift to take with you & leave behind!

It is time to move beyond suffering & struggle & into living more fully our truth & the truth of the Gift that is this life. To living a life of joy. When I went for a walk that one day, when I wondered if I was ever going to be okay, I felt it very clearly given to me, that I needed to choose to be okay. Yes, I needed to continue to feel, but it was given me to make the choice if I was going to be okay. There was tremendous power in this.

And something else was given me at that moment. There was this impression that I also needed to choose to live a life of joy when that time would come.

We are given this choice to choose to live a life of joy, to thrive. Not just to be okay, to just survive. We are given to progress, to live the full gift & purpose of our experience here.

The other day, as I stood in my kitchen cooking dinner for my family, I finally made that choice.

I stopped what I was doing & I acknowledged out loud , from the depth of my being, to my Heavenly Father & to myself, that I choose to live fully. I choose to live a life of joy. As I did, I felt the reality, even the power of this choice, run from my head to my toes. We really do get to make this choice don't we?.

I know, from my own experience, that as we do so, we will be honored & beautifully supported in this! This is what the Heavens want for us & this is what we are perfectly created to do. This has been so beautifully shown to me over & over again. Now, I get to live it! What a most precious gift! Thank you!

Part 2 - There is more....

2009-06-24T20:49:00.009-06:00

Now, I have definitely felt my emotion through out this whole experience. And I have even felt a sense of acceptance at times & even a deep gratitude for the many, many beautiful Gifts given me in this experience.

But, I became aware of this kind of "nothingness" or "un-feelingness". It wasn't exactly a numbness like I had felt at times. It was just something, but nothing at the same time. I didn't know what this was telling me at the time, or at least it wasn't clear for me then. I did know that it did not feel good. I live my life by the way I feel within & this was really discomforting for me.

The other thing that was really concerning to me, was how I would get so triggered by things. I would feel such a sudden, deep & intense sense of mourning, like I had at the beginning. It almost seemed like I was regressing in my processing of this experience.

So, in following my heart, I asked my Heavenly Father what it was that I needed. And I was guided & provided with exactly what I needed next.

On June 14th, Carol Tuttle did her regular weekly call-in radio show, "Living Your Truth with Carol Tuttle". With the details being so perfectly orchestrated for me, I followed the guidance I was given & listened into this call. I came in right before Carol took a live call-in from a woman who had recently experienced the loss of two of her children & of her business.

As I sat there listening, I cried tears of acknowledgment & gratitude. I knew that this call & what Carol was saying to this woman, was also a gift for me.

When I got off this call, I let my hubby know I was going for a walk! In the stillness & quiet of the beautiful area that I live, I acknowledged to my Heavenly Father & to myself, "I'm feeling it. I am really feeling it!" I then simply asked, "What do I do now?".

I realize now, that for me, this was also acknowledgment that I was willing to move on. That I was willing to progress. It turns out, this was exactly what I needed.

After this experience, I have not had anymore of those intense emotional triggered moments. I was also given a gift, even that very night, to be conscious of the fact that I have come to the acceptance & even completion with this loss. I felt such a confirming feeling & even a peaceful strengthening within me when I acknowledged this was true. When I owned it.

Why would I have reservations on moving forward? I became aware that I was indeed holding onto the suffering of this experience. And it was getting really intense so I would listen!

Now, I've been given insight into the "why's" here. At some level, I believed I still needed to suffer! Feeling that it honors & values this life if I stay here? And if I move on, it doesn't? Like it makes the whole experience more valid if I suffer longer?

In being aware of these, I simply acknowledge that they are. I just felt the feelings there. And then, I simply told the truth about it.

Which leads me into my next blog...... Yep, there is more! Read the the 3rd & final part, (which truly is only the beginning!), "Tell the truth, the whole truth."

What a Gift you Type 1's are!

2009-06-23T10:36:00.009-06:00

Regardless of what your current experience may be, EVERYONE can benefit from a little more Type 1 movement in their life! I have the gift of having all of my children & husband either created with a dominant Type 1 expression or it being a strong secondary for them. And although it can be a bit overwhelming for me at times, the majority of the time, we laugh. And we laugh ALOT!

What a gift to any human being! Here is just some of an article on laughter, that I love, by Carolyn Cooper, the creator of "Calyco Healing".

(This is from her newsletter for this month. You can visit her newsletter archive for the rest of this article & for more to beautifully support you!)

"We've all been there. Maybe sitting in a restaurant, an office waiting room, or shopping at the grocery store and you hear someone laughing heartily or uncontrollably giggling. It's hard to not smile and maybe even (depending on how great the laugh is) begin giggling yourself. Laughter is contagious--just hearing laughter primes your brain and readies you to smile and join in on the fun. Laughter is so good for us in so many ways.....

Increases Joy in Relationships

When we laugh with one another, a positive bond is created. This bond acts as a strong buffer against stress, disagreements, and disappointment. Shared laughter is one of the most effective tools for keeping relationships fresh and exciting. Humor is a powerful and effective way to heal resentments and hurts and it unites people during difficult times. Humor and playful communication strengthen our relationships by triggering positive feelings and fostering emotional connection. I always love to see a couple that has been together for years, and they still laugh at each other's semi-humorous comments. That speaks volumes about their relationship. Mutual laughter and play are an essential component of strong, healthy relationships. By making a conscious effort to incorporate more humor and play into your daily interactions, you can improve the quality of your love relationships-- as well as your connections with co-workers, family members, and friends.....

Benefits your Physical Health

In addition, laughter triggers healthy physical changes in the body. Did you know a good, hearty laugh relieves physical tension and stress, leaving your muscles relaxed for up to 45 minutes after? Laughter also decreases stress hormones and increases immune cells and infection-fighting antibodies, thus improving your resistance to disease. It triggers the release of endorphins, the body's natural feel-good chemicals. Endorphins promote an overall sense of well-being and can even temporarily relieve pain. Laughter protects the heart by improving the function of blood vessels and increasing blood flow, which can help protect you against a heart attack and other cardiovascular problems.....

Emotionally

Humor helps you be more spontaneous by getting you out of your head and away from your troubles. It helps you let go of defensiveness, by helping you forget judgments, criticisms, and doubts. Laughter also helps to release unhealthy inhibitions. It brings you to a place where you can set aside your fear of holding back.

(I love this....) Laughter is a natural part of life that is innate and inborn. Infants begin smiling during the first weeks of life and laugh out loud within months of being born. Sometimes we as adults get so busy with the 'important' things on our to do list, we neglect the levity that is so much needed in our lives. So how do we add more light and laughter into our lives? Even if you did not grow up in a household where laughter was a common sound, or if you did and you've forgotten how important that is, you can learn to laugh at any stage of life.

Here are some ways to start: (Here are just a couple of what Carolyn lists....)

Smile. Smiling is the beginning of laughter. Like laughter, it's contagious. Pioneers in "laugh therapy" find it's possible to laugh without even experiencing a funny event. The same holds for smiling. When you look at someone or see something even mildly pleasing, practice smiling.
Count your blessings. Literally make a list. The simple act of considering the good things in your life will distance you from negative thoughts that are a barrier to humor and laughter. When in a state of sadness, we have further to travel to get to humor and laughter.
(And to the point of my post.....) Spend time with fun, playful people. These are people who laugh easily-both at themselves and at life's absurdities-and who routinely find the humor in everyday events. Their playful point of view and laughter are contagious.

Anyone can join the laughter movement........( I especially love this next quote from her...so very true!) ....Laughter is feeling deeply which allows us to live fully.

Humor lightens your burdens, inspires hopes, connects you to others, and keeps you grounded, focused, and alert.....

Laughter is a powerful antidote to stress, pain, and conflict. Nothing works faster or more dependably to bring your mind and body back into balance than a good laugh."

What a Gift to have this movement & expression in our lives!!! Laugh with them. Celebrate & enjoy their spunk. It will do you both alot of good. Have fun!

True to my dominant Type 2 nature....

2009-06-23T07:48:00.012-06:00

True to my Type 2 dominant nature, you'll notice that a lot of my posts are pretty long! There is a lot of detail, sharing of my heart, connection etc....it's just my nature...literally! Would you like to learn more about your innate human nature?

Check out Carol Tuttle's groundbreaking work in her new book,"It's Just My Nature!", to learn more about this. It has been such a gift to me & my family. I'll be writing a lot on this blog, about one of the biggest gifts given me in this work; how it blesses & so beautifully supports me in being a wife & a mom!

In this book, based on her work, Energy Profiling, we learn about the dominant elements that make up all tangible matter; nitrogen, oxygen, hydrogen & carbon; & how these literally help create the gift of our physical bodies. You'll learn about how these elements are uniquely organized in each human being & ALL of nature.

Why does this even matter?

Well, for me, I have always wanted to know what was wrong with me! Why did I get so caught up on details? Why can't I just watch a movie & leave it at the theater? Why do I think the way I do, sometimes dwelling on things, questioning & worrying about them so much? etc. etc. etc.

It turns out....nothing is wrong with me! In fact, I'm pretty great! JUST LIKE YOU! And I actually can see it & now am experience it more fully, for myself!!! What a gift.

Every single life that is, or ever has been, on this planet offers a unique gift, a unique expression & filling a place that only they can. Even people with the same dominant Energy Type & even the whole same Energy Profile, are different & beautifully unique.

It's really a fun thing to just begin to be aware of this beauty in another. And for me, it so touches my heart. More than once I've been moved to tears as I've finally been able to see my child or another human being through these eyes. To literally just "behold" the beauty of another. Even of myself!

And we don't even have to think about it, judge it, or question it! Just take it in! That's what you do when you behold a beautiful sunset at dusk or a newly blossomed tulip or the dynamic red hills here in beautiful Southern Utah, or even the still, regal beauty of that frozen pond & newly snow covered field. You just "take it in" & appreciate, even celebrate or cherish it for what it just is! It so naturally follows to express what gratitude I feel to my Heavenly Father for this creation & the gift given, to simply behold it, to experience it.

This understanding just gives such beautiful insight into & realization of what is given us, in the Gift of who & what we & our loved ones already are!

As we have this awareness, this further understanding about the gift that truly is our physical beings, our innate human nature & how we tick, we begin to learn how to use what we have been given to bless & benefit our lives & those around us. That's what they are given to us for! Not to continue living in the "weaknesses" of these, or in other words, using what we've been given in a way that no longer supports us or others.

It is journey & a beautiful one at that! We really do learn all along the way. I would invite you to support yourself, your marriage & your family- not to mention your co-workers, neighbors, friends, or even the checker at the grocery store- by you gaining this further understanding about yourself & others. Simply a beautiful support in living more fully the Gift that you already are!

You can also learn more about the truth of your own authentic & beautifully unique innate nature, by visiting Energy Profiling online. Depending on when you are reading this, you'll also be able to experience Carol's fun & powerfully supportive Dressing Your Truth system online to. Look for more coming on this blog about my own experience with this!

Take care!

Part 1 - "I'm feel'in it!"

2009-06-20T08:02:00.014-06:00

Part 1 - (just keep following...it gets better, I promise!)

In life & sometimes especially in this field of Energy Work, we think that we have to "chase" away our more uncomfortable emotions. Whether by using some energy clearing tool, by positive thinking, (although both do have their place), or by distracting ourselves from feeling, with the all too familiar thinking habits we all have created - unconsciously of course. Our minds have such a wonderful ability to keep us alive. To help us survive. The only thing is, that feeling our emotions is not going to kill us! Even though it may feel like it sometimes.

The last few months, I have experienced this reality very vividly. In March, I delivered my sixth child at only 16 weeks gestation. My precious little baby had passed away in my womb, only a day or so before, according to the indications observed on ultrasound by my OB-GYN. I don't think I can put into words the depth of grief I experienced in all this. As well as what my husband & our other 5 children did as well. (Not to mention grandma's & grandpa's, aunts, uncles, friends, & even my doctor, etc. We truly are all in this life experience together!)

The loss of a child through death or by any other means, whether that child is a centimeter long or a grown adult, is one of the most painful experiences any of us can experience here. And more than once, I wanted to just make the feelings, maybe even the whole experience go away. However, I knew, as I listened to my heart (as best I could), that as much as it hurt, I needed to feel it. And feel it & I guess, feel it some more -cause I sure have! I know, with all my heart, that it is by God's grace & His love for me, that I have been able to!

The Energy Therapy tool I have been trained & certified in, Calyco Healing, helped me in regards to taking care of the energetic needs in my physical body, but I knew I got to feel this one full out! No energy therapy tool can take away your experience for you. Nor if we really understood or could see the eternal perspective, would we want to. Experience is one of the main purpose we are here! (The benefits & blessings of which turn out to be even more beautiful than we could have ever imagined by the way! This I know. I have experienced this for myself many, many times through out my own experiences in life. )

It is an interesting thing...these emotions. One minute your fine, or even feeling numb & the next, you are wondering if you'll ever be okay!

I remember one day in particular when I just had to get out of the house & walk. When I left the house, I seriously wondered if I was ever going to be okay. If these feelings would ever go away!

I walked & cried & walked & cried. And walked & cried some more. And oh how I prayed!

The several weeks after this experience were just like that for me. But progressively, it has gotten better, as I have tried to accept this experience as fully as I could & truly feeling it as fully as possible, while praying all along the way. But remember....this is processes. There is more......(Read part 2!)

***Listen to Carol Tuttle's recorded call-in radio show, "Living Your Truth", from June 14th, entitled; "What to do when you have an emotional meltdown" Click here to listen now.

Or copy & paste this link to your browser:

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/CarolTuttle/2009/06/14/Living-Your-Truth-with-Carol-Tuttle

She takes a call from a woman who shares her own experience in loss. Carol provides some very simple & yet such powerfully helpful guidance, on living your truth, even when experiencing loss ~exactly what we are meant & perfectly created to do!!! Her guidance is so right on!

"Welcome!"

2009-06-18T15:55:00.015-06:00

Welcome to our blog & to the educational & supportive resources here available to you. I also share here many of my own experiences, as I am learning from & supported by the understanding & insight that we are given in these resources.

As a wife, a mother to 6 children & as simply being a human being, I get to experience some of the most beautiful gifts we are given here. As an Energy Work practitioner, I have also been blessed to understand & experience more fully, what tremendously gifted & influential beings we truly are in our own lives & in the lives of others.

I have experienced the beauty of our truth in action & reality many, MANY times in my life & it NEVER ceases to touch my heart & fill me with gratitude to experience this. And I am so very grateful that we are now being given such profoundly beneficial understanding & resources to help us live it more fully than we ever have!

From the life enhancing understanding & science of Energy Profiling TM, the one on one support offered through our individual consultations, the pure & simple Energy Therapy tool, Calyco Healing, a resource utilized in our consultations to further assist you as needed, the other recommended links & blog entries, to the fun & beautifully supportive Dressing Your Truth TM system; all of the resources here simply & gracefully support you in doing so in your own life, in your own marriage, within the walls of your own home & in all the opportunities you are given.

My intent for this blog is to simply support you in living the Gifts that are already before you, including the Gift that you already are!

Enjoy the journey, as you are discovering, experiencing for yourself & living more fully each day the Gift that you & your loved ones truly are, & that this life truly is. I know I sure am!

It is such a joy to simply live - to experience, to give & to receive - as we are so beautifully & perfectly created to.

Take care & God Bless.

D.D. Black